The 16 Best Sex Toys On Amazon, According To Experts And Reviews

Women's Studies scholar Dr. Lindsay Byron says that this toy "reigns supreme when it comes to tried and true results,” adding that it "covers a larger surface than your average disco stick, and demands more power than a battery can deliver." Developed in the wake of the women’s liberation movement and popularized in an episode Sex and the City, it’s the first toy of its kind. While traditionally connected to a wire, it now also has mini and rechargeable versions.

Pros: enduring popularity; sexpert-approved; high-powered

Cons: attached to a wire

Customer Review: "If you’re not used to watching your girl get herself off I’m telling you now put your ego aside. This thing creates intense orgasms for her and once you witness something like this for the first time you may be feeling some type of way about it afterwards." -Amazon

Womanizer is known for its patented Pleasure Air technology, which both simulates oral sex and creates a unique, unprecedentedly pleasurable sensation that mimics the feeling of receiving oral sex. Sex educator and Lovehoney sexpert Javay Frye-Nekrasova says of the Womanizer collection: "Nothing is more luxurious or leads to more exceptional levels of pleasure." Built to last long and boasting 14 intensity levels, 10 vibration patterns, and two stimulating heads for dual pleasure, it’s the perfect addition to any vagina owner’s sex toy collection

Pros: sexpert-approved; mimics oral sex; many functions

Cons: made from silicone, so not compatible with silicone lube

Customer Review: "Throw away all of your other toys, and be ready to be ruined. Best O ever." -Amazon

Who doesn't love some spicy jewelry? Not only is the Crave Vesper a fully functional vibrator that packs a punch (it has four different, easy to use vibration patterns that reviewers of all experience levels love), but it's also a sleek, conversation-starting necklace. I love wearing my Vesper around—it matches with everything, and it's a great way to take flirting to the next level on date night. I’ve written at length about how much I love my Vesper, and how it’s the ultimate feminist accessory. 

Pros: editor-approved; compatible with all lube types; multiple intensities; wearable; fashionable; long battery life

Cons: none found

Customer Review: "This vibrator is fun because you can wear it as a pendant (hangs pretty low) and no one will really know what it is...It actually packs a pretty intense vibration for the size and the fact that the entire outer shell is stainless, that vibration transfers very effectively." -Amazon

For those who enjoy g-spot stimulation and prefer grinding over direct clitoral stimulation, this is an impeccable option. Reviewers agree that it's perfect for women who enjoy being on top during heterosexual partnered sex, because it perfectly mimics the angle of penetration one experiences while riding. It also features seven vibration functions, three vibration speeds, and a 60 minute battery life. And if you love hands-free play, never fear—the toy is fully remote controllable. 

Pros: mimics girl-on-top sex; realistic feel; versatile; multiple functions

Cons: not waterproof

Customer Review: "If you’re an “on top” kinda girl this is for you." -Amazon

This is one of the most highly rated dildos on Amazon, and it's an absolute bargain. Its colorful design means it's made with exhibitionists in mind, or at the very least for those who like to inject a bit of fun into their sexual repertoire. Many reviewers write that its high-quality silicone material strikes the perfect balance between soft and firm. However, at a little over seven inches long, it’s best to reserve this toy for more advanced play and to ensure it’s paired with lots of lube.

Pros: waterproof; highly rated; soft, realistic feel

Cons: silicone, so it cannot be paired with silicone lube

Customer Review: "Oh my LAWD. This is a must buy!! I came 3 times back to back and I stopped to write this but I’m about to go back for some more!" -Amazon

This dildo is a whopping 7.9 inches, so be sure that you're prepared before use and that you have plenty of lube on hand. Customers are astounded at what a value this toy is, writing that the price "can't be beat," especially considering the toy's realistic feel, strong suction cup, and firm feel. It’s made from silicone, which is body-safe and feels luxurious, but cannot be paired with silicone lubes (or else the toy itself can degrade). 

Pros: soft, realistic feel; affordable; strong suction cup

Cons: silicone, so cannot be paired with silicone lube

Customer Review: "It’s pretty realistic and feels amazing. Soft silicone, not hard or plastic—it even bends a little." -Amazon

For those who don't want a realistic looking or feeling dildo, consider a fantasy, glass, or metal dildo. This one, for instance, is highly rated on Amazon and features an adorable pink moon at the end that's perfect for easier gripping. Reviewers say that it's effective and that it can easily be cleaned with sex toy cleaner or by soaking in boiling water. Plus, because it’s made from glass, it can be popped in the refrigerator or (carefully) heated before use for temperature play.

Pros: can be paired with all types of lube; ergonomic grip; good for temperature play

Cons: none found

Customer Review: "Very nice, decent weight and good size. Can be cleaned in boiling water without any issues. Very pretty design! One of the best glass dildos I’ve bought -even better than some $100+ glass toys!" -Amazon

This dildo, which comes with lube and a handy remote control, heats up to your preferred temperature so that you can enjoy a more comfortable, customized sensation. Plus, many verified customers rave that its detailed, ridge-filled shaft feels very realistic. At nearly nine inches long with an automatic thrusting length of 6.2 inches, it’s best suited for experienced users, and features three thrusting modes, five vibration modes, and a high-powered motor. It even has a heated mode, so you can experiment with temperature play while you're at it.

Pros: remote controllable; vibrating; comes with lube; strong suction cup for hand-free play; realistic feel

Cons: silicone, so not compatible with silicone lube

Customer Review: "Definitely didn’t kno what I was in for when I bought it I mean I read the description but once you get in your hands with that remote!well made product feels amazing to to touch and very powerful vibration and thrusting." -Amazon

This anal plug set is the number one bestseller on Amazon in anal plugs, and with good reason. It’s designed for beginners who are looking to work their way up to girthier types of anal toys at their own pace, and is equipped with four soft plugs of varying sizes as well as a dilator. Reviewers love the soft, high-quality silicone that these toys are made of, and multiple people rave that the attractive gift box the set comes in makes it great for gifting.

Pros: highly rated; soft silicone; great for all experience levels; several toys for the price of one

Cons: silicone, so not compatible with silicone lube

Customer Review: "The feel of the toys is great and the smaller sizes are perfect starters. The shape of the toys feels amazing. It was my experience that the difference between the largest plug and the size down felt fairly large. Having the set is great though whenever I decide to play because I can always start small and work my way up. Additionally the suction cup feature works great in the shower." -Amazon

The dual motors on this toy mean it's great for sensual, intense play, whether alone or with a partner. Customers write that they love using it in the shower (it's waterproof, don’t worry) and say that its slight girth makes it perfect for beginners. And with three types of 360 degree rotation modes and ten different vibration intensities, you can rest assured that there’s something in this toy for everyone, no matter their experience level. It’s also suitable for g-spot stimulation—just be sure that you pick which part of the body you’d like to use it on, and keep your anal toys separate from your g-spot toys.

Pros: remote controllable; varying rotation and vibration modes; good for g-spot and p-spot stimulation

Cons: silicone, so not compatible with silicone lube

Customer Review: "First of all, the texture of this product is great. It's extremely soft, so it doesn't take as much lubricant as a glass or metal toy. Very easy to use, and the handle on the base makes it easy to guide with your hand. The remote works well and is very responsive, and the motion and vibration settings both work well too." -Amazon

Njoy is a fan favorite for its high quality, metal toys, and this butt plug is among them. If you're interested in temperature play, the toy effectively holds both cold and heat for extended periods of time, and many reviewers make a point of saying that the longevity and quality of this product make it more than worth its price. Because of its material, it’s also waterproof and compatible with all types of lube, from water-based to oil-based to silicone. 

Pros: compatible with all types of lube; great for temperature play; highly rated

Cons: none found

Customer Review: "I can't say enough good things...If this something you have been hesitant to buy, stop waiting and buy it. Find the size that matches you and don't look back. My only regret was waiting soooo long before making the investment. The junk toys I have bought in between would have bought 3-4 Njoy products, and these will outlast me." -Amazon

This is the number one bestselling set of anal beads on Amazon. The toy can be used as a standard, non-vibrating set of anal beads, while the vibrator attachment has 16 different vibration modes of varying patterns and intensities, from gentle to intense, so that people of all experience levels can keep this toy in their collection for years to come. Reviewers especially love that the vibrator attachment can be removed, just in case vibrations aren't your thing and you prefer the beads by themselves.

Pros: removable vibrator head with varying intensity levels; good for all experience levels

Cons: silicone, so not compatible with silicone lube

Customer Review: "Not only was it packaged extremely well, it also came with its own bag to hold the toy. The vibe is strong, and manages to get throughout the toy for thorough stimulation. It's a great addition and a fantastic start to spice up the bed life with anal. It's pretty easy to clean, too." -Amazon

Rowntree loves Sportsheets' under the bed restraints, especially this set, which includes restraints for both arms and legs as well as a strap that can connect them all together. Not only do reviewers write that the set is comfortable and sturdy (it’s made with 100 percent body safe material), but Rowntree also points out that they're subtle, so you can let them take up permanent residence on your bedframe and be tucked away underneath when they’re not in use.

Pros: comfortable; sexpert-approved; safe; sturdy; subtle; good for travel

Cons: none found

Customer Review: "These bondage straps are ideal! They are easy to set up and easy to hide (or easy to leave suggestively poking out from under the mattress, if desired). The straps are strong, and easy to adjust, but I've never had the buckles loosen unintentionally when using." -Amazon

Rowntree says that feather dusters are a great way to start one's kink journey without heading straight for pain play, and are a low-pressure way of introducing toys and kink into the bedroom. This feather duster in particular has a high rating on Amazon, with one used commenting that it's well-made, durable, and that its feather won't fall off while it's in use. It is not intended for penetrative use and is not waterproof, but it is, within reason, easy to clean. 

Pros: sexpert-approved; great for beginners

Cons: none found

Customer Review: "Meets usage expectations, well packed, good size, very soft, and feathers don't fall out with use." -Amazon

If you're looking to try spanking and flogging but aren't sure where to begin, consider this flogger, which comes with multiple attachments and a long handle. It's also the number one bestseller on Amazon among all floggers and crops, with hundreds of glowing reviews to its name. One top reviewer explains why, saying that it was comfortable for both receiver (upon impact) and giver (in hand), and that it helped opened both partners up to trying different kinds of kink play. 

Pros: comfortable; soft; authentic; good for all experience levels; long handle

Cons: may be too intense for beginners

Customer Review: "Firm, strong, easy to grip and end material offers good variation in delivery." -Amazon

There are a lot of handcuffs on sale on Amazon, but this set is among the best. Multiple reviews say that they're surprisingly high-quality and sturdy (a value, considering the low price). Furthermore, they're adjustable, and many verified customers appreciate their ability to fit any and every wrist size. Most importantly, they feature a safety release, so you can feel comfortable physically and mentally during play, and you’ll never have to worry about making an embarrassing emergency call if your partner loses the key. 

Pros: great for all experience levels; safety latch

Cons: can be heavy

Customer Review: "Very heavy, but I think that gives them character. Easy to get out of on your own—keys are just for play." -Amazon